Ashley Osborn Jessie J is opening up about welcoming her first son, Sky, with boyfriend Chanan Safir Colman in 2023 after experiencing a pregnancy loss two years earlier "I adore this boy and this man so much, I could tear up," she tells PEOPLE The English pop star sings about the experience on her latest single, "No Secrets," out now Jessie Jis in an especially bright era. Afterexperiencing a pregnancy loss in 2021, the English pop star, 37,welcomed her first son, Sky, with boyfriendChanan Safir Colmantwo years later. She sings about the dark period on her first independent single,"No Secrets,"and is now opening up about how motherhood has brought light into her life. "Honestly, the amount of love is so overwhelming," Jessie tells PEOPLE about fans' reactions to "No Secrets" since the song came out on April 25, marking her first major release in about four years. "There's always that little voice that's just like, 'Do people care? Do people want it?' And there's just been so much joy and excitement." "No Secrets" opens with a vulnerable admission: "I lost my baby / But the show must go on, right?" When it came to writing the track, the "Price Tag" singer knew she wanted have a "face-to-face, eye contact conversation" with listeners through honest lyrics about her miscarriage. "That obviously it relates to me and what I've been through," says Jessie of the opening lyric. "But as adults in this crazy world, we are all going through heartbreak, loss, grief, trauma — and all have to get up and go and do something, look after someone, be present or go to work to pay our bills. All of us have to put that sadness somewhere, store it and continue." While it's not easy to get so candid about such a difficult experience, she felt compelled to be "honest" with fans on "No Secrets" after years of not sharing new music. "It's the kind of song where if it didn't come first, it shouldn't have come at all," she says. Ashley Osborn Jessie and Colman's romantic relationship began later in 2021, and she gave birth to now-2-year-old Sky in May 2023 — a moment she now views as a "happy ending" to the challenging time. "I adore this boy and this man so much, I could tear up," she says through a smile. "It breaks my heart that not everyone's going to get their happy ending," adds Jessie. "The gratefulness and the joy that I experience every day, waking up knowing he's in my house, and he's alive and well... Until you experience it, it's so hard to really understand. And I never really understood that until I had him." Mike Marsland/Getty The "Domino" artist declares, "Finding the love of my life and then making our love ofourlives is just the most magical experience I've ever had." Jessie's current mindset is reflected on her next single, "Living My Best Life," which comes out Friday, May 16 and finds her celebrating pure joy in its lyrics. "When I sing that song, I think about all the people that I have in the sky," she explains. "I'm living for them. I wish they could still be here." Dawn Fletcher-Park/SOPA Images/LightRocket via Getty Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE's free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. Written about five years ago, "Living My Best Life" has already taken Jessie through "so many journeys in my life" — and now she's ready to share it with others. "When I gave birth to my son, that was the song I was playing," she says. "I'm going through some health stuff, and this is the song that makes me feel powerful. There's just so many times in life where even if you're having a good or a bad day, the music is just your soundtrack. And I feel like people forget, maybe, that my music is also my soundtrack." Read the original article onPeople